This page is for anyone designing a bracelet in memory of a dog, cat or other animal, for themselves or for a friend. The most useful starting point is the animal itself: coat color, eye color, the years you had together. Below is a coat-to-stone table, two priced designs, and how to show a name or paw count with stones alone.

Quick answer:

Match the main stone to your pet's coat and use a few accent beads for a detail, such as eye color or four beads for four paws. A black-and-white cat becomes Black Onyx with a short run of Clear Quartz and two Green Aventurine for green eyes: 29 beads at 6 mm on a 16 cm wrist, $58.99 in total.

Which stones match a pet's coat color?

For a pet memorial bracelet, the coat color is the easiest link to recognize at a glance, and most coats have a close match among natural stones. The table uses stones from the BVDIY bead library. Natural stones vary from bead to bead, so think "close in tone", not an exact match.

CoatMain stoneNote
BlackBlack Onyx or ShungiteBlack Onyx is glossy and commonly dyed; Shungite is an untreated black
White or creamClear QuartzSelenite has a silkier white but must stay dry
Golden, yellowTiger's Eye or Yellow JasperTiger's Eye has bands that look a lot like a golden coat in light
Chocolate, brownSmoky Quartz or BronziteBronzite is darker and has a metallic shimmer
Ginger, redCarnelian or SunstoneCarnelian is commonly heat-treated
Grey, blue-greyLabradorite or HematiteHematite is best kept dry
Tabby, brindleTiger's Eye mixed with Smoky QuartzAlternate in uneven runs for a striped look
Calico, tortoiseshellBlack Onyx, Carnelian and Clear QuartzPatches of two or three beads read better than strict alternation

For eyes, a single pair of beads at the front is enough: Green Aventurine for green, Aquamarine or Iolite for blue, Tiger's Eye for amber. On a golden coat, brown eyes in Smoky Quartz barely show, so skip the eyes there and use another detail.

What does a tuxedo cat bracelet look like?

A tuxedo cat bracelet is mostly black, with a short white "bib" and two green eyes at the front. Built for a 16 cm wrist with 6 mm beads, which the studio gives 29 positions:

  • 24 Black Onyx at $1.60 each, for the coat.
  • 3 Clear Quartz at $1.60 each, together at the front, for the white chest.
  • 2 Green Aventurine at $1.40 each, one on each side of the white beads.
  • Total with the $12.99 stretch base: $58.99.

At 6 mm the bracelet stays slim enough to wear under a cuff. Black Onyx is commonly dyed, and the bead card says so. If the cat had yellow eyes, swap the Green Aventurine for Tiger's Eye at $1.80 each.

What works for someone who rarely wears jewelry?

For a person who rarely wears jewelry, use one main stone, bigger beads, and keep the detail small. Here is a golden retriever bracelet for a 19 cm wrist with 10 mm beads, which the studio gives 21 positions:

  • 17 Tiger's Eye at $2.07 each for the coat.
  • 4 Clear Quartz at $1.84 each, side by side, one for each paw.
  • Total with the $12.99 base: $55.54.

From a distance it reads as a plain brown-gold bracelet. Larger beads look at home next to a watch, and the four paw beads can be turned to the inside of the wrist if the wearer prefers to keep the meaning private.

Can you add a paw charm, the pet's name or ashes?

Not on a BVDIY bracelet. The studio uses natural gemstone beads only, so there are no paw charms, letter beads or name tags, and it doesn't set ashes or fur into jewelry. Here are ways to carry the same details with stones:

  • Paws by count: four accent beads together, as in the retriever design. Three for a three-legged dog works the same way.
  • Years by count: one accent bead per year you had them. Up to about eight accents looks tidy on an 8 mm strand; beyond that, group them in a row at the front rather than scattering them.
  • The name in Morse code: pick one stone for dots and another for dashes. "Max" is M (dash dash), A (dot dash) and X (dash dot dot dash), so eight accent beads, plus a fill bead between letters. Short names work best; the Morse code bracelet guide covers spacing.
  • A color from their things: one Red Jasper for a red collar, one Sodalite for a favorite blue ball.

Do the stone meanings matter for a pet memorial?

Stone meanings matter for a pet memorial only if you want them to. Every bead card in the studio prints a traditional folklore line, and a few are often chosen for remembrance: Rose Quartz is traditionally associated with affection and gentleness, Smoky Quartz with calm and gentle grounding, Garnet with devotion and lasting friendship. These are traditions, not effects. For a pet bracelet, the coat color usually means more to the wearer than any folklore line. If you'd like to read more, the guide to stone meanings lists the traditions for every stone.

How do you give a pet memorial bracelet to a friend?

Get two things before you design: a photo of the pet and your friend's wrist size. The photo settles coat and eye colors; ask someone in the household, or look through their social media. For the wrist, the studio takes a whole-centimeter measurement from 14 to 20 cm and adds the ease itself. Borrow a stretch bracelet that fits them, lay it flat, measure it and subtract about 1 cm, and choose the larger size if you're between two. The measuring guide has other ways to get the number.

Custom designs are final sale, and you can change or cancel within 1 hour of ordering. Processing takes 1 to 3 business days and standard shipping 5 to 10 business days within the US and Canada, so allow about three weeks there; delivery times to other countries vary. Shipping is $5.99, or free on orders over $99. For a human loss rather than a pet, see the memorial bracelet ideas instead.

How do you look after it with other pets in the house?

Keep the bracelet out of reach of puppies and cats when it isn't on your wrist. Pets chew elastic, and loose beads are a choking hazard for animals as well as small children. Take it off for dog baths and swims, and roll it over your hand rather than tugging on one spot of the cord. Quartz-family stones such as Black Onyx, Tiger's Eye and Clear Quartz can be wiped with a damp cloth. Hematite should stay dry.

Pick the coat stone first, then add the one detail that says it's them.Design Your Bracelet

Sources: Stone meanings in this guide are traditional folklore, not a promise of any effect.